Update to enable mongodb 5 driver

[rbliss]

Updates mongodb-queue to work with the MongoDB 5 driver. Preserves the existing API of mongodb-queue. Works with latest versions of MongoDB 3.7.X, 4.X.X, and 5.X.X. Also:

• Sets MongoDB as a peer dependency since mongodb-queue is sensitive to the particular version of mongodb but doesn't include the dependency directly.
• Resolves out of date dev dependencies for security
• Bumps package version since lower versions of MongoDB 3 don't work

All tests are passing.

[chilts]

Hi @rbliss, thank you so much for this. I will look at this soon, but probably not today or tomorrow. I just want to checkout the entire thing and re-test some things, esp. since I haven't used this project for a long time. Thanks again and feel free to ping me here if you need anything else.

[rbliss]

@chilts No problem! And thank you for creating this project and maintaining it. Happy to make any changes